Every situation is different. My own kid sister whom I stuck by all of her life and gave money to and helped put through school stopped talking to me and and wouldn't even answer phone calls, letters or even the door when I drove up to Colorado to see her and find out the problem was....I left and haven't seen or heard from her for years now. She was a spoiled selfish child and she stopped talking to or seeing my mother years earlier. I would not go along with that nonsense and told her she was wrong. No matter what our mother said or did, she was our mother and deserved obedience and respect no matter how old we were. I truly believe and live that and I think she took it to mean I was against her. Stupid and useless all this pettyness but looks like its going to be this way no matter what. Itza sometimes its so hard to just walk away but like in Diannes case and mine, its the best thing to do.