WW, it might be age related but I think it's just we're old enough now to have:

Been there
Done that
Seen that, too.

We don't fall for guilt trips any more because we recognize them for what they are; they stink!

That's one of the criteria I use to help me decide. If I feel like someone's trying to shame me or guilt me into doing something - then I'll say NO automatically - regardless.....
If I want to I will; if I don't, I won't. If you try to 'trip' me into anything - - then for sure I won't!!
My 2 cents. [Razz]