Dianne, some friends are very possesive and I don't think that's right. Maybe you can find a way to talk and let her know nicely your concerns regarding "her friendship" and what you expect or not.

Friendships involve respect, trust, consideration, etc. The way I see it, if a person cannot respect me, he or she is not my friend.

I'm sure your response would've been different is she would've sent you a note or email saying she misses you, right?

If you're interested in keeping her as your friend, I'd say: address the issues. If you're not interested in her friendship, just let it go and don't sweat it. Some things are just not worth our effort and time. Others deserve it all.

Life is too short and precious. And we have only one chance to live! Smile and enjoy it!