OK, I'm going to go back to an earlier comment in this thread. "How many of us would confront our husbands to tell him to leave a girl thing if it might mean the end of the relationship."

She wasn't married to the guy. And even if she was, there is nothing wrong with spending time with same sex friends.

I'd bet money that if the man in question had a guy's getaway planned, he would not in his wildest dreams consider taking his girlfriend along.

And if he would leave a relationship over not being included in such an outing, good riddance. Better to find out early on that he's a selfish person.

Whirlwind