I'm not sure what I would ask...because it depends on the background of the woman. Seriously.

Could I relate to this particular woman: Probably not. I think she is very different culturally from my grandmothers (who we've never met because they both died in China).

But there would be 1 single question I would ask any woman: What is your advice to any woman looking to plan her future these days in order to live her life well?

I knew my partner's mother who lived until she was 93. Last 2 yrs. of her life was minor dementia and health/mobility rapidly declining. I knew her for over 15 years.
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