Whirlwind, I HAD a girlfriend like that. If I was dating a guy she thought nothing of calling while I was with him but the minute she started dating, she was too busy to talk to me. If I was lucky enough to meet the guy (she always kept them away from me, which I thought was an insult) she would hover around and over him like he might fly away. And, she always ended up getting dumped. Men (or women) don't like that. She's also the one to declare the loudest that she doesn't need a man to complete her. You know, that was 14 years ago and she's still alone. Sad but true.