Welcome! A dilemma indeed! I think you have to do what makes you happy; it's that simple. Oh, I know, it really isn't simple at all. No matter what you do, somebody is going to be upset with your decision. But you are not responsible for other people's feelings. If none of these others were in the picture, what would you do?
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