Hi ladies. Thanks for the advice.

BF and I HAVE had "the talk" in the past (and actually we broke up when he didn't pay attention to what I was saying). Once we got back together, things were good for awhile. It seems that once he is comfortable with "us", and he thinks I'm his and not going anywhere, that he falls back into the same pattern again.

This time I have let it go on for well over a year. You can't change people, I realize that. Do I want to keep living with it? I'm not sure.

And thank you for the condolences for my dog. She was a sweetheart and I'll miss her forever.

Hugs to you all.