I was wondering due to something I heard the other day. Have your feeling changed about your parents since they have grown old and may need your care or help to live their lives now?? I heard several people talking and they were complai ning about their parents, having to drive them everywhere, visit them more, and so on, and so on. I was shocked to say the least. My mother means the world to me and there is nothing I would not do and have not done for her that I could. I want her with me all the time but she refuses to leave her lifelong home, friends, and her freedom. She did live with me when I was close by and we had a grand time. I can't understand people but then I haven't walked in their shoes either.