Chatty,

I am so sad that you feel both sons are ungrateful. I just keep wondering what would happen if you stopped saying negative things about them and started to search out the positives for each of them?

I certainly don't know much about your sons, but I do believe in the power of positive thinking and that people respond to the way we treat them. You know, the ol' "what goes around comes around" philosophy. At this point it sounds like it couldn't hurt. And at worst it would just confuse the heck out of them...
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