I had a call from my younger son this morning to tell me his dad, my ex, died yesterday evening. While this was not unexpected - my ex had a couple of heart attacks and congestive heart failure - the news was a shock. I hadn't talked to my ex for many years; we divorced 17 years ago after being married for almost 25 years. I am wrestling with what I feel about this. On the one hand, I loved him once; on the other, his drug and alcohol abuse caused his death and the death of our marriage. I'm not sure what I feel at the moment. Anybody else had this happen?
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