This is a serious discussion and I am aware how much hurt you all feel. I send sincere good wishes..

I would like to say that people do regress when life changes such as divorce...new relationships...unemployment..and then do move into a more mature state in time.For a man to loose a marriage must be a grief experience..all the hopes going.Finding himself older..wiser perhaps but somewhat soured..he may be hitting at the one person he trusts and loves..You.

Meantime EW the pleasure of sailing and doing the small things in life to make yourself happy create a bubble of good ether around you..Perhaps your little lady "A" will be the bridge to happy things happening..children speak their truth and some of her words may be the arrows that pierce her Dadda'a heart for the better.