Amen, JJ, Amen! How many times has this forum been the ladder out of whatever deep dark hole I've managed to crawl into over the past few years! Gosh, would I even be here today??? One of my favourite quotes these days is: "Failure isn't falling down, it's remaining where you've fallen." Daring to come here and share your heart and seek comfort and solace not only helps yourself, but it helps us too, because we all have days when we need that boost up and it allows all of us to pay forward to others all that we've received's love in action.
When you don't like a thing, change it.
If you can't change it, change the way you think about it.

(Maya Angelou)