Whirlwind, why choose if it isn't an issue for you. Sounds like you have the best of both worlds and it is working for all concerned. Chances are you'd pick one and be sorry so I suggest you "have a ball!" Life is too short to be pressured into something you know won't be satisfactory in the long run. So called experts write books and they never work for everybody, and what makes anyone an expert in life anyhow? You go girl, enjoy your life, it's yours and so long as it suits you, so be it!!!
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