Hi there. I found this website when searching for help with a problem, and perhaps you all can help a bit. My husband and I have been seeing another couple socially for several months. It's only every 4-5 weeks, but my husband does it grudgingly. The other couple is very different than we are, I know, but they're nice people. Hubby really doesn't want to be obligated to get together with them (and me just getting together with her would be awkward). Anyway, I'm used to being the "dumpee" in friendships for as long as I remember. I'm not used to being the "dumper". It really needs to be done, but I don't know how to bow out gracefully, and without hurt feelings. Any advice? Thanks so much.