I would so rather have a good loyal husband, than some sexed up wanderer. Jabber it sounds like you've got one of the good guys. You might try asking nicely for what you'd like, a back rub, foot rub, a hug, even a kiss.
Most women,me included would say; "if he doesn't do it on his own, well, I'm not going to beg!" I felt that way too until my grandmother said, men aren't ever as affectionate as we are and need to be led just like little kids. Ask and you shall receive and after awhile he might think to do some of that stuff on his own. Kudos to him for being content to be home with the woman in his life...that is a very important plus.
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