Excellent advice, Chatty! We are trying to live your words. For my husband it's more difficult because they're his two daughters. They have been estranged from him for almost 3 years....they play the blame game of a very long story. Anyway, he had a new granddaughter born in October and has another one on the way by his other daughter. We see photos on Facebook of them....so, soooo sad and a true waste of one's time on this earth. But we can't change them....that's for them to wake up and do one day. I only hope it's not too late then.
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If we couldn't laugh we would all go insane ~ Jimmy Buffett