My tongue in cheeck message..about how "One day" I will put myself first is a recognition that I am aware that I put others first.Perhaps I am basicly a tribal person a team player and muddle around now in my retirement.I have time which is a luxury.But as for health..we must all strive to know ourselves our limits note the red flag waving health wise.
My generation here in my part of the world were programmed to be "good homemakers and wives/mothers.." and this takes energy.Later women realised there are many ways of caring and loving..I continue to discover and enjoy the diversity of life..but without good health both physical and emotional life is harder so I pledge often to study what is important..