Di...I am sorry to say that I haven't a clue what I'd say to someone in that situation. I guess maybe we'd both cry and then I'd ask that person what I could do for them. I am sorry I cannot be more help....I'll send prayers up for you and your friend...God bless.
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Dee
"They will be able to say that she stood in the storm and when the wind did not blow her away....and surely it has not.....she adjusted her sails" - Elizabeth Edwards