I give them? They're already living together, and have been for 2 yrs now; she's not even having a shower, as she doesn't need the "stuff." They don't have a lot of money, average income--but I think giving money (from the mom/mom-in-law) is tacky and impersonal. I was going to knit them an afghan but do absolutely not have the time, and I wouldn't buy one from someone--that kind of gift has to come from me. Does anyone have any suggestions? I'm really not a creative gift-giver, and have absolutely no idea what to do about this. Thanks.