Eagle
I read a book this week a novel from my library by Douglas Kennedy.In it he writes as a Mother whose little girl is run over...her subsequent grief..it is so well written I wept.
the woman is mad with grief...flees..attemps suicide and the story of her recovery is suberbly woven by Kennedy.
I thought about you when it said that the loss had to be "accomodated" and that is subject for a thesis.

Its a hard thing that happened loosing Gary.You shared and we cared.Thank you for sharing and I remain on your shoulder whispering that you find peace..