Now you ladies have me thinking. And, there is nothing wrong with a little "personal reassurance."

So...

Before I started seeing the gentleman in the beforementioned post, there was someone else. He is in another state and we visited back and forth about once a month. Very comfortable for both of us, but that's as far as it's gone.

Granted, the doting from this other man has been nice. But I can't help wondering if there might be anything with the first one. My last couple of visits with him were "different." In a good way.

I'd like to know. He is shy and I am too. I'd like to call him and say "I'm seeing other people, and was just wondering, do you see anything more ever happening between us?"

Or, does anyone have a suggestion as to different wording? Now I've got this on my mind, and I have to know.

Thanks.

Queenie