Update:
Summer is here and kids are almost done school, just writing exams. Everything is good, kids are good and my daughter is with me and doing well. She is calling when out, checking in etc. We are back to normal. I think it was a good experience for her. A real learning experience for me.

Moving was a great idea as I now have them going by new house rules and they are keeping the house clean for the most part. My daughter is arranging her room which is new, usually she doesn't care but is making an effort now.

So, all is quiet on the home front which is so nice.
Thanks for asking.
Kate