I've been married two years now to a wonderful man. But our four children in one way or another are driving us crazy. My main problem is that I don't like his kids! I struggle daily with the fact that I adore my own children (21 and 16) and know that I will never love his like my own. They are 22 and 17. The older girl has caused us so much pain and argument; she has been a wild child. Plus, they get free college tuition where he teaches, so they never leave! AGH. I feel guilty all of the time because I want to avoid them. Now, two graduations are coming up (one from high school and one from college), his ex-spouse is coming to town for both, and I don't want to be a part of it at all. I love him and know he wants me there, but I don't think I can fake it for an entire day, two weekends in a row. HELP!