Kate, I know your mother's heart is breaking over the recent events of your daughter. While I know you're ticked with her, the best thing to do is love her. I'm sure she knows you disapprove of her lifestyle so maybe it's best to stay away from the topic, reminisce with her about when she was little, and try to do some dreaming with her. I don't know if it will help, but it's worth a try. Maybe you cold send her a card a week with some type of encouraging message. Try to build her up. That's what she needs right now.

What's happening with the girlfriend who was also living there?
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