Expat,
I just want you to be happy; do what makes you happy. This is
my 2nd marriage. And I'm content and happy. But you need to do
what makes you happy. If the guy has stuff you cannot overlook,
than only you know that. Do what's right for you. I don't want
to sound preachy or know-it-all, because I don't. I overlook
a lot of stuff that some women would not. My 1st hubby ran around with women and hungout all night. This guy is a stay at home sort. I like that. He overlooks my shortcomings too. You do what will make your life whatever you desire it to be. Lately, I was told, and it warmed my heart, go in grace. I think grace means the favor of God.
Prayers and blessings...
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