SolarGoddess, I'm so sorry to hear the diagnosis. I know what you mean by it being a relief to know...but as you say, now the real work begins. When will they begin treatment?

My heart and prayers are with your friend - and YOU! This is a good safe place to come and hang out when you need a break and a breather...and shoulders to lean on when the going gets tough.
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When you don't like a thing, change it.
If you can't change it, change the way you think about it.

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