Bookie,
Mustang, Yonuh, and Ed3 have given great advice. The only thing I
can add is prayer. I've been through a period of depression; and
a nasty divorce; and other of life's up and downs. Parental
advice sometimes gets misconstrued. And, as those before me said, if your daughter patches it up with hubby, she may
resent whatever negatives escape your mouth. We'll pray your girl finds less expensive child care and that her husband comes to his senses. I never figured out why some guys don't appreciate what they have at home. So often, the wife far
excels in every area, above and beyond, the female scoundrel who lures the man away. I don't get it!