Hi Bookie, boy do I know what you are going through. And I know how heartbreaking it can be.

I had to learn over a period of time, that the best advice was no advice. And I love to give advice…that's why I'm here. If you give advice to your daughter, then only if she asks you for it. Till then sit tightly and just be there for her to vent to.

As for the money thing, I had to learn the hard way too. It's funny, but adult children may even resent you for giving them money. Oh yes, they will take it,…but they hate the situation, and they can be even bitchy about it. Whatever,…my kids know our home will always be their home. Just letting them know that, is sufficient and comforting for them. Maybe your daughter just wants to take a time out for a weekend at your place? You could offer that, if it is possible.