Bookitty, I'm sorry for all that you've endured. Would it upset your husband if you changed the locks? I know its difficult with extended families and considering the two gals are not blood relations that you may want to prosecute. I wonder if you could speak to them and prepare a contract stating that they will pay you back financially the $5K or you will prosecute? Yes, you were violated and they need to earn your trust, which may take years. They need to understand that and you need to be repaid or have the jewelry that is recoverable returned (especially if family gifts or heirlooms). I understand and will pray for a resolution.