bookitty, I'm wondering how you and your husband are getting along. Have you had a heart to heart about why you're getting on one another's cases? It's one thing to have to deal with the addicts, yet another for you and your spouse to be upset with one another. You do have control over your relationship with your hubby, so I'd think about making that the best it can be. Sorry to hear you have to deal with this. Wishing you clarity and wise words for the situation.
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