Hi ladies,

Well, the court read him his rights, told him he could serve jail time so he might want to consider getting a lawyer, and informed him if he's "indigent" then the court would appoint him a lawyer.

He's going for the "indigent" role - and applying for a lawyer.

So, this won't go to court until Jan of next year.

I am underwhelmed with the unfairness of the court system.

I am extremely shocked at how little regard the court system has for women who are not receiving their court ORDERED maintenance.

I was married for 21 years, was a stay at home, homeschooling mom, and all I got out of the divorce was used furniture.

I gave up relying on him over a year ago, and yes Kate, it is extremely freeing. I am VERY blessed to not be on his financial rollercoaster.

He looks like hell. litterally. My guy went with me to court and saw my ex for the first time. He will attend with me in Jan as well. I'm sure that hacked my ex off a bit.

He was very adgetated that the court couldn't do anything on that day (he had driven 2 plus hours from his house at 9:30 am).
If anything, I can take some satisfaction that I am running him a bit ragged.

Thanks for asking Chatty!

The blessing is....I am healthy, my childen are healthy, I have a wonderful, satisfying life with a new man who adores me. I sleep well at night...and I have incredible abundance and joy!!!!

What more does a gal need???? lol

hugs to ya sisters!

danita