Hi Whirlwind

What a beautiful post...thank you for sharing it with us! I so enjoy hearing about relationships and what is happening within them.

Many years ago, I was challenged by a guy I met on Match.com to put down in writing what I wanted in a relationship. I had never thought to do that. Being me, I *had* to rise to the challenge (grin) and ended up with a 12 page document that I shared with men I was even somewhat serious about.

I prioritized my "have to haves" and then my "nice to haves" and then all the other stuff.

My best advice is to make sure you know what is important to you and stick to your guns on those and be flexible on other things that may not be so important to you.

I see you having the perfect relationship for you! Whatever that may be!