NYWoman, what a great way to begin a relationship. I guess it's similar to people meeting online today, then traveling to meet. So you traveled from NY to CA to meet him? What an adventurous gal you were.

judy, happy to hear your son is marrying one who completes him. I pray that for my children.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts about your wedding. I have a regret about ours too. We were so not into church when we married that we didn't want to get married in one. How awful is that? Anyway, the priest said we had to say our vows in a church so we had our immediate fmaily to the church, said our vows and were out of there. We then got married outside with none of the people attending knowing we were technically already married. Oh to be young and stupid!