Oh girl, that is too bad. We certainly didn't mean to come across as being sarcastic. I hope it didn't. My comment was to say that if it were ME, and it isn't, but if it were, getting a good, independent lawyer would be my next move...however, I didn't realize the circumstances were a bit more complicated.

Of course you're not stupid...and I do apologize if it came across that way. You are just a bit frustrated, aren't you? Well, I wish I had some words of wisdom but I'm afraid I've never had any experience with this type of money investment. Sorry I couldn't be of more help.

Maybe someone else on here can comment. What I CAN do though is say that I'm sorry you have this aggravation, and yes, I hate that you cannot move. I know you have mentioned this before and wanted to. I hope something changes for you and that your strongest desires are fulfilled. Honestly.