You know what -- that would make a WONDERFUL new topic

We women go through all the physical changes -- hot flashes -- gray hair -- body parts defying gravity -- so we forget that our men are going through changes too --

perhaps its feelings of having "failed" their families -- themselves -- not being where they thought they should be by this time in life

or perhaps its just relaxing -- becoming couch potatoes --

maybe senior moments aren't just for us ladies

if we think of the fact that MENopause may be spelled that way for a reason -- perhaps we can ALL survive these years

All I know is that my best friend saw me through some good times and some bad times -- and if I can put up with poopie diapers and kitties following them home from the bus stop and girls calling at 1 am and bills and broken water heaters and find time to laugh THEN -- I can certainly look the other way when I don't think he's quite living up to his end of the bargain now