Di
What was so wonderful about your past that you cannot leave it? Surely it has been reconstructed in your mind because nothing is perfect except God.

You can't live in memories. To do so is to abandon the present and forsake the future. Bad memories should be left behind to die of starvation and good ones should be nurtured to become a strong foundation for the present. But living only happens in the here and now.

Even the most compassionate person cannot allow themselves to be swallowed up by the needs of another. Your husband may have simply given too much of himself. He must be terribly lonely. He is living in the present alone while you are living in the past.

Maybe you can look into the needs of your relationship and let that become your passion?

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