Welcome, Lani...
I, too, and sorry you had to suffer such losses in such a short time. It's tough enough when time gives us a break.
Can you explain what a "Board and Care home" is and how it fits into the list of out of home care facilities? I've not hear the term before. My family and I are dealing with the last years of our parents' lives, one is at home and the other in a facility (not of my liking). It's hard to watch them age.