judym

I'm sorry I didn't respond to your post sooner. I just now had the time. I hope the rawness of your losses has faded. I know it can be so hard.

Every year I notice the anniversary of my father's death. It's been 22 years. It doesn't hurt anymore. What comes with it for me is his loving gentle smile. The good things that he was - the positive things he gave me that I use every day of my life. The things that he wasn't, things that I wanted him to be, are no longer important. He loved me, still loves me, what more could I ask?
I still have my mom. She's 87. I don't know how that loss feels yet.

Love to you,
Vi