Oh you bet she's always welcome here til she gets in a better place. I'd never turn my back on a friend! Actually we have talked about that too, if she gets in a rough spot she can always come here-I think she has good legal rep. in place where she won't lose her home just yet but who's to say, it's not going to be an easy passage for her. And I am not going to be a crutch for her, just try to support her as much as possible and rein back when I see that's necessary. And God Bless her, she has started to go back to church- I know she will get some support and fellowship there, not to mention just the peace of having that back in her life again. I just want to be there for her and really help without hindering. I've learned just to listen, not to comment- to let her vent as much as she needs but not interject my opinion, just try to let her know she is stronger than she knows and in time she will be empowered more and more. Thank you all for your input, I really appreciate it so much!