KitKat, welcome! I don't know if this will make you feel better, but you are not the first boomer woman to come here with this issue. If you search around, you'll see that others are in the same boat.

Too bad the duaghter won't get help for her illness. Medicine can work miracles for people with bi-polar if they are willing to work at it.

Another thought, if the daughter moves out, would you still not want to be with your hubby?


I guess you have to choose between living miserably in luxury or living a more contented life in a smaller condo. Just remember that you can make your new home a nice place to live too, surrounded by all your favorite things.

Also, can you afford to keep the house if he moves out?

Also, what do you mean by anger issues? Is he abusive?

Don't feel like you have to answer all these questions for us. Just answer them for yourself.

Sending clarity your way.