Princess..I am lifting something you wrote from the thread on "boxes" and bringing it here. I don´t know how to work the quote thing on this forum, so I am quoting you from memory here,.."incest is never a random act like a car accident..it is a about control".

I was told that my incest experiences were due to the use of whiskey by the adult and the situation he was in at the time..but this wouldn´t wash for you, right? Can you explain what you meant by your quote above?
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