I know how it hurts #5 but hang in there and it will get better. I keep hoping he'll come to his senses and act like a man and support you and the granddaughter the way he should. Be the man you thought he was. There are so many men out there and as Searcher says once you've taken the time you need to love yourself then you can and will find someone who you can love and respect and who will love and respect you. Don't be in such a hurry this time thought please....