I found out today, Chatty, that since we refinanced this house before we were married, I might have a chance to claim some of the profit from the sale of the house. Florida is a no-fault state therefore all the bills and assets are split equally.

There won't be any shame on me. I'm being forced to go forward and its not pleasant. I'm taking it one step at a time. I just know I can't be with him anymore.