The problem is that you are still there allowing this a--wipe of a husband to treat you so badly. Get the heck out of there as far and as fast as possible. Don't even look back, don't talk to or see this man and then and only then will your life change for the better. Why should you give a dam what his 'stupid' friends think? You need to realize once and for all that he is a devil and thats the truth....