Thanks everyone, my computer is in getting fixed so I am responding from work which is not a great idea but will check in periodically. I have asked me son to have the doctor send me a report as I need his permission. If he gives it, I will no more about what is going on, but it is up to him. He is usually fairly good about this.
Will update when I can.
Thanks for the prayers and Ladybug I will check out the link thanks.
Kate