Hello Sue,
I work with women all over the world who are thinking of divorce, during divorce and are divorced. I'm glad both of you are going to counseling. Many times I see couples who don't understand their own as well as their spouse's communication style and what also fills each other's love tank. Having gone through divorce 12 years ago, I always recommend to try and work it out with all available resources first.
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