Dianne, no I haven't heard from his wife either. He may have stopped using by now, I may have grandchildren I don't know about. My sons have always been taught by me that no matter what they did or do, my door and my heart is always open 24/7 to them, andi haven't moved. For the newer babes (Danitas name for us) Last Christmas Eve my ex stopped by, when he was leaving and getting into his car a woman got out of her old beat up car and asked if I was inside? He said, who wants to know? She proceeded to tell him she was Marks (son) MIL and she needed help from me about him. My ex got really angry and told her there was no help here for them. She cursed him and instead of coming to my door she drove off and h followed her to the main highway. My ex never told me anything but called my other son on his cell and told him, so David (son) called to tell me what had happened. When my ex came back I confronted him about the entire situation and he said, probably all they wanted was money, they know what a soft touch you are...Needless to say we had a battle royal and he was asked to go and never return. So whatever she wanted, I may never know...my son is apparently alive and living in Vegas. Thats one good thing I guess.