LJ, my youngest son and his wife were living in my home and enjoying all the advantages of living in a resort and paying no rent can bring. They were here a couple of years and he suddenly changed, became moody and mean, long story short, he was hooked on drugs. He bacame abusive to his wife and one night during a fight between them I stepped in and let him know I didn't raise my sons to abuse women or drugs. He said then we're moving out! I said okay, after offering to pay for himto go get help, whatever it took. He said, He said he didn't have a problem, I did and that they were moving out. Okay then, BYE!!! LJ, that was 1n 1994 and I haven't seen or heard from them since. Sometimes no matter what, we as parents have to put our foot down and accept the consequences, its that or allow the to run over top of us, disrespecting us and what we stand for...