after all the love songs I've danced and sung, I have become simple about how to make it work:
Love them, really love them and the rest will follow.

I know how simple this is but I've seen a lot of relatinships and I've sung and danced a lot of songs. People do all sorts of things other than practicing loving, in ways like Dotsie, posted.. They play games, fight for fun until someone gets hurt, they take each other for granted or in the case of entertainers, they marry for money for fame.

Just love the person will all your heart every day and night and all should be well. The most popular love songs, if you think about them, are simple.

ie: "You are so beautiful to me" Joe Cocker
"Every breath you take," - Police
"Nothing compares to you,- Sinead O'Conner by Prince
"I will always love you," Whitney Huston, and written and performed first by Dolly Pardon

These songs have very few lyrics and are commercial successes! Trust me, I know about this subject and I'm here to say, it's easy.

And if you don't love them, leave them so they can be loved because the most popular break up songs are simple too! Most of them are about the same ol' problems couples have.

Turn on your radio and study!

dancer of love songs